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Top 10 Salary Negotiation Tips

salary There’s no doubt about it. We’re in a TOUGH job market. If you’re in the process of looking for a job, or have one but need a raise, it is your best interest to take the time, before discussing your compensation, to learn the basics of salary negotiation:

1. Do Your Homework!

The very first thing you need to do before approaching any negotiation situation is your research. Cliché as is sounds, when you fail to plan, you plan to fail. You have absolutely no excuse to skip this crucial step. In this internet era, all the information you need is at your fingertips!

2. Stand Out From the Crowd

What catches the gleam in a potential, or current, employer’s eye? Those that make them take a second look, leave a lasting impression, make them want more… If you plan to ask for more than what is offered, you need to show them you will earn it. They will not regret their decision, not even for a second! How can you do this?

· Always Dress to Impress

· Arrive 10 Minutes Early and Stay 10 Minutes Late

· Constructively Contribute to Meetings

· Volunteer to Help Others with Projects

· Be Respectful and Polite to Everyone (Even the Custodian)

· Get a Higher Education

· Take Continuing Education Classes to Further Your Knowledge

· Be a Step Ahead of the Rest

· Work Your Butt Off!

3. Avoid Boxes

If the job you are applying for asks what your last salary was or what you expect to receive at your next job, do not comply! Instead, write N/A (Not Applicable) into these boxes. Leaving this box incomplete will not be a make or break factor when deciding who to interview. If the potential employer really wants to know your range, they will ask during the interview.

When you do comply and complete the form, it almost always affects your position negatively. Either you did not make enough at your previous place of employment, and thus are not worth much. Or they may assume that they can’t afford to hire you because your prior salary was too high. In either case, your best bet is to avoid disclosing this information until absolutely necessary.

4. Don’t Ask Until Offered

If you are on the job hunt, remember to avoid taking numbers until you receive a formal offer. In our culture it is generally considered taboo to ask a potential employer what you will be making before they have even offered you the job. Employer’s can be put off by the question of “What will I be making,” and that could hurt your chance of even being hired. Furthermore, asking them to state the salary range will set the anchor, in their favor, if compensation negotiations take place down the road.

5. Identify Your BATNA

Knowing your BATNA (Best Alternative to No Agreement) is important when entering into any negotiation. Having your BATNA clearly defined before a salary negotiation is absolutely necessary. Your livelihood depends upon the decisions you will need to make.

For example, if you are making $60,000 at your current job, all other considerations being equal, your BATNA would be to not accept any offer lower than that amount.

Another example may be that you have been out of a job for three months, the prospects are looking dim, but the unemployment check of $1500/month covers the bare essentials. Your BATNA would then be to accept any job paying more than $1500/month.

6. Leverage Opportunities

When defining your BATNA, don’t forget to consider the leveraging power of other opportunities. If negotiating with a current employer for a raise, you can tactfully mention that you have received many other offers from competing companies (only if true, of course). Simialrly, when working out the details of an offer with a potential employer, reveal that you have already received offers for employment from respected firms. This shows them you are a high demand asset of human capital.

7. Never Accept the First Offer

What is the number one rule of negotiation? Never accept the first offer! If the employer is the one who sets the anchor point, always assume that they have offered you less than they are authorized to give. You can bet that they’ll want to give themselves a little wiggle room and therefore will suggest a number in the low range. They may do this to see what they can get away with, while saving the company or themselves some major cashola.

8. The Benefits Bonus

So many people focus on the final cash income they receive that they forget to consider the value of benefits. Health and Life Insurance, PTO, 401K’s, Retirement Planning, Wellness Programs, along with many others are important assets to remember when negotiating your compensation package.

9. Get it in Writing

No matter how successful the company you will be working for, or already work with, get your compensation agreement in writing! No if’s, and’s, or but’s! Even those with the best reputation can justify going back on their word if there isn’t evidence to back-up what was said.

10. Why Win-Win Works

Principled negotiation, more widely known as the win-win strategy, is not always the right direction to take when negotiating. BUT, when you are in the midst of finalizing a contract for employment with a potential or current employer it is in your best interest to utilize this strategy. Ensure that your conduct is fair, honest, and collaborative. Work with your employer to find a compensation package that meets your needs and falls within their budget.

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How to Start a Negotiation Blog

The fellow negotiation bloggers of the world need a little company. Surprisingly, there are relatively few blogs out there that focus solely on negotiation. The market for those looking to read blogs about negotiation is HUGE! We need some help. If you have considering starting a blog, think about blogging on negotiation. This unsaturated market has a lot of elbow room to move around. I know you will be pleased by your decision to blog about negotiation. Follow this guide to get started:

Choose a Niche

You want your negotiation blog to reflect your experience and the interests of your potential readers. You’ll want to choose a niche that is focused, but not too much so that you run out of topics to blog about! Here are a few suggestions of blog topics to help get the creative juices flowing:

  • bloggingReal Estate Negotiation
  • Debt Negotiation
  • Car Negotiation
  • Salary Negotiation
  • Law Negotiation
  • Conflict Management
  • Basics of Negotiation

Personalize It

The most valuable asset you can bring to your blog is YOU. Use your personal experience to appeal to the heart of your readers. If you are a novice negotiator, tell stories about your journey to becoming an expert. If you negotiate professionally, blog about your experience negotiating with other experts in the field. The point is to find your own style and your own voice to ultimately captivate your audience and leave them wanting more.

Share Successes and Failures

“There is much to be said for failure. It is much more interesting than success.”—Max Beerbohm

It is imperative that you share with your readers not only when you have succeeded, but also when you have failed. Without failure there would be no success. If you allow your readers to see past the professional facade you may exude, and into the part of you that is human, they will be much more likely to relate to what you write and even learn from your mistakes.

Want to write about negotiation, but not necessarily start your own blog? Email me about becoming a guest author on the Negotiation Board.
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6 Must-See Negotiation Movie Clips

Movies and Media have the ability to shape culture and influence perceptions of people around the world. If you are a negotiation junkie, like me, it is imperative to analyze popular scenes on negotiation from these sources to understand how negotiator’s are perceived. We can learn from those on the big screen about how a good negotiator should, and should not, behave. Check out these popular Movie and TV show clips for insight on Hollywood’s salacious view of negotiation:

1. Jerry Maguire “Show Me the Money”

Tom Cruise shows us the importance of securing your position before entering into a negotiation situation in this famous clip from Jerry Magurie.

 

2. Firefly “The Negotiator”

This Firefly episode illustrates that knowing your place, and your BATNA, is crucial in a high stakes negotiation. Since the first prisioner didn’t comply, he was made an expamle of. The next victim quickly agreed to the terms the captin layed out for him.

 

3. The Fifth Element “Send a Negotiator”

Bruce Willis  shows the other side the he won’t negotiate with terrorists and instead boldly takes action to win the fight.

 

4. The Godfather “Negotiation the Don Corleone Way”

Don Corleone’s reputation obviously precedes him in this scene from the Godfather. All he needs to do is sit back, be silent, and wait for the other side to make a better offer before he agrees to anything.

 

5. Entourage “Ari Teaches Terrance a Negotiation Lesson”—WARNING EXPLICT CONTENT

Ari Gold turns the table on his former mentor, Terrace, and shows him who’s now boss. He exploits private information to get what he wants, while saving $25 Million in the process.

 

6. Mobsters “The Commission”

Christian Slayter puts his cards on the table to persuade his fellow mobsters to change their business model. Since he was so open and honest, they unanimously vote him in as head of The Commission.

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5 Ways to Teach Kids Negotiation Skills

confident kidThe ability to successfully negotiate is a valuable skill for all to possess. It is then your responsibility, as a parent, to lay a foundation for your kids of negotiation essentials. The following guide will help enable you to begin intentionally teaching your kids how to negotiate:

1. Teach by Example

Your kids are learning from you the moment they are born and never really stop. The number one most effective way you can teach your kids negotiation skills is to let them see you negotiating. Take them along with you when you buy a car, let them overhear your conversation when negotiating with the cable company, and bring them to garage sales to let them see you practice the good ol’ fashion haggle. The point is to expose them to as many positive negotiation experiences as possible in their formative years.

2. Teach by Experience

Set-up situations where your kids have the chance to exercise their negotiation skills. For example, you may tell them that you will raise their allowance if they can tell you why it should be higher, what they will do for the increase in cash, and how they can assure you that they will follow through with their end of the bargain.

3. Teach Problem Solving

Much of negotiation involves working with others to find solutions that satisfy the interests of all parties involved. Give your kids a chance to work out differences between their siblings or friends on their own. Reward them for a job well done if they find a solution that doesn’t leave anyone in tears.

4. Teach Confidence

An essential trait of an expert negotiator is to be confident in his or her abilities. Praise your child for their successes in school, sports, and hobbies. Remember the first steps that your child took and how excited they got from all the positive attention? Depending on their age and attitude, they may not show their gratitude for your praise as obviously as they did when they were babies, but inside they are just as happy that they could please you.

5. Teach Resilience

We all make mistakes and failure is a part of the learning process. If we don’t even try, we will never succeed. To encourage your child to utilize their negotiation skills, however elemental they may be, show them that it is okay to make mistakes. The best way to do this is teaching by example. Instead of getting upset with yourself for doing something wrong, just laugh it off and hopefully they will learn to let things roll off their shoulders as well as you.

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